Ok, i decided to ask all these questions in one (instead of posting 3 or 5 different questions)
1.- “I seriously think that my girlfriend is allergic to ALL types of lubricants!” When we use condoms after i’m finished i notice how dry the condom is, so we started using extra lube.
First time we did the mistake of using “personal WARMING lubricant/massage oil” well… friction started going up and it burnt both of us (yes, ouch) she also said it stung a lot (*NOTE, she does shave everything… maybe that is why sometimes it stings?)… i didnt even finish cuz it burnt her that bad.
Next we used the KY yours – mine, it felt amazing to me, but she again said “it hurt, like it burnt, and got really hot” and it sucked cuz it was intolerable, like she had to stop me. 
Thirdly we used the KY Jelly EXTRA sensitive, and she still said it burnt, but it is tolerable… that is why we cant use much of it, one day i put a little too much and she said it started to burn a lot again.
So what kind can we use? Condoms just make her get so dry, because when we do it bare she is wetter than the rainforest…we don;t go bare as of now because she is not in Birth control no more… she may go on that shot thingy, where she doesnt get her period for like 3 months, SUCCESS! :p
That is question one.
Question two:
“Is making my girlfriend orgasm before actual intercourse bad?”
I know is good for HER. But here is whats up, about 80% of the time i go down on her during foreplay, do my thing for about 10 – 40 minutes until she reaches orgasm, and yes, it is REAL she even tells me to stop she shakes and, it is just great, then we get on it, and if i am not finished within 15 minutes she claims to be “too sensitive” and i have to stop…
Why?
Third question: She loves the “shocker” but still won’t let me do anal penetration, she says that my penis is too big… i don’t consider myself to be big at all, i am hispanic, and about 6 – 6.5 inches in length, idk my girth, have never measured it i guess kinda like an eye socket? i have no idea, how can i persuade her into it… ? She keeps saying “not yet”
Fourth question:
What is you guy’s opinion on foursomes? (2 guys, 2 girls)
Like i brought it up jokingly a long time ago, but she randomly said that she thinks that would be fun to do, now at first i was like, hell yeah, but now im like hell naw!
I dont know how to feel about other dude (close friend of mine btw) screwing my girlfriend, but again, how would my gf feel about other girl riding me ya know? what if i don’t even find the other chick atteractive? (i know my friend, the girl is not my friend’s gf, she is just a “friend with bennefits” of him) I think maybe i am a little jealous, i am my gf’s first (and only so far) and i kinda like it that way, am i being too jealous? Also the issue, what if my friend is bigger than me or better? my gf keeps telling me that i am perfect size for her “You even sometimes hit my ovaries! lol” she says, and that if my girth were any bigger it would probably rip her, so should i worry at all? She also said that after the foursome she’d be cool with threesomes (2 girls + me) …. so i really don’t know, maybe if i get drunk/high before the fourseome i wouldnt care about one of my friends screwing my gf, but idk… thoughts?
Sorry for all the questions, but just curious.
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1) There is allot that could be going on here. She might be allergic to the condom, the lubricant, or a combination of both. Have you tried a non-latex condom alone? What was the result? If she was fine with a non-latext condom have you tried a basic water based lubricant, like KY without anything added? Is she on any contraception like birth control pills, Norplant, or Depo-Provera if so, then consider try a silicone based lubricant like Astro-glide.
2) Women are like guys once the go beyond orgasm they will get sensitive. I suspect that is her limit. You need to figure out how to adjust to it.
3) Most likely you have not done enough stretching or lubrication to that area. Also that type of activity takes allot of trust and it may take some time before you reach that point so be patient.
4) I am neutral on foursomes. The main thing you need to keep in mind is that for a foursome to work all of you need to be compatible and sometimes it takes some searching. Allot of times friends are considered but realistically you are, in my opinion, better off with a couple that are not friends. Also doing a foursome while drunk or high puts everyone at risk. It can create a situation where there are allot of regrets afterward. My advice do it sober or do not do it at all.
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